refactor(proxy): streamline proxy status handling and improve dashboard availability checks

app/Livewire/ActivityMonitor.php

@@ -20,10 +20,10 @@ class ActivityMonitor extends Component
 
     public bool $fullHeight = false;
 
-    public bool $showWaiting = false;
-
     public $activity;
 
+    public bool $showWaiting = true;
+
     public static $eventDispatched = false;
 
     protected $listeners = ['activityMonitor' => 'newMonitorActivity'];