feat(server): allow force deletion of servers with resources

Add ability to force delete servers along with their defined resources:
- API: Accept ?force=true query parameter in DELETE /servers endpoint
- UI: Display checkbox option to delete all resources in deletion dialog

When force deletion is enabled, all associated resources are dispatched
via DeleteResourceJob before the server is removed, enabling one-step
deletion instead of requiring manual resource cleanup first.

app/Http/Controllers/Api/ServersController.php

@@ -7,6 +7,7 @@ use App\Actions\Server\ValidateServer;
 use App\Enums\ProxyStatus;
 use App\Enums\ProxyTypes;
 use App\Http\Controllers\Controller;
+use App\Jobs\DeleteResourceJob;
 use App\Models\Application;
 use App\Models\PrivateKey;
 use App\Models\Project;
@@ -758,12 +759,22 @@ class ServersController extends Controller
         if (! $server) {
             return response()->json(['message' => 'Server not found.'], 404);
         }
-        if ($server->definedResources()->count() > 0) {
-            return response()->json(['message' => 'Server has resources, so you need to delete them before.'], 400);
+
+        $force = filter_var($request->query('force', false), FILTER_VALIDATE_BOOLEAN);
+
+        if ($server->definedResources()->count() > 0 && ! $force) {
+            return response()->json(['message' => 'Server has resources. Use ?force=true to delete all resources and the server, or delete resources manually first.'], 400);
         }
         if ($server->isLocalhost()) {
             return response()->json(['message' => 'Local server cannot be deleted.'], 400);
         }
+
+        if ($force) {
+            foreach ($server->definedResources() as $resource) {
+                DeleteResourceJob::dispatch($resource);
+            }
+        }
+
         $server->delete();
         DeleteServer::dispatch(
             $server->id,

app/Livewire/Server/Delete.php

@@ -3,6 +3,7 @@
 namespace App\Livewire\Server;
 
 use App\Actions\Server\DeleteServer;
+use App\Jobs\DeleteResourceJob;
 use App\Models\Server;
 use Illuminate\Foundation\Auth\Access\AuthorizesRequests;
 use Livewire\Component;
@@ -15,6 +16,8 @@ class Delete extends Component
 
     public bool $delete_from_hetzner = false;
 
+    public bool $force_delete_resources = false;
+
     public function mount(string $server_uuid)
     {
         try {
@@ -32,15 +35,22 @@ class Delete extends Component
 
         if (! empty($selectedActions)) {
             $this->delete_from_hetzner = in_array('delete_from_hetzner', $selectedActions);
+            $this->force_delete_resources = in_array('force_delete_resources', $selectedActions);
         }
         try {
             $this->authorize('delete', $this->server);
-            if ($this->server->hasDefinedResources()) {
-                $this->dispatch('error', 'Server has defined resources. Please delete them first.');
+            if ($this->server->hasDefinedResources() && ! $this->force_delete_resources) {
+                $this->dispatch('error', 'Server has defined resources. Please delete them first or select "Delete all resources".');
 
                 return;
             }
 
+            if ($this->force_delete_resources) {
+                foreach ($this->server->definedResources() as $resource) {
+                    DeleteResourceJob::dispatch($resource);
+                }
+            }
+
             $this->server->delete();
             DeleteServer::dispatch(
                 $this->server->id,
@@ -60,6 +70,15 @@ class Delete extends Component
     {
         $checkboxes = [];
 
+        if ($this->server->hasDefinedResources()) {
+            $resourceCount = $this->server->definedResources()->count();
+            $checkboxes[] = [
+                'id' => 'force_delete_resources',
+                'label' => "Delete all resources ({$resourceCount} total)",
+                'default_warning' => 'Server cannot be deleted while it has resources.',
+            ];
+        }
+
         if ($this->server->hetzner_server_id) {
             $checkboxes[] = [
                 'id' => 'delete_from_hetzner',