fix(docker): replace deprecated stop flags with version-aware ones

Store each server's Docker version and build stop commands via
dockerStopCommand() so newer Docker uses --timeout instead of
deprecated --time/-t. Also show Docker version in server details.

app/Actions/Database/StopDatabase.php

@@ -56,7 +56,7 @@ class StopDatabase
     {
         $server = $database->destination->server;
         instant_remote_process(command: [
-            "docker stop -t $timeout $containerName",
+            dockerStopCommand($timeout, $containerName, $server),
             "docker rm -f $containerName",
         ], server: $server, throwError: false);
     }